WHY WE APOLOGIZE...............

Apology means admission of guilt which is going together with
the request for forgiveness and an expression of regret.
When you admit your mistakes, other people you come across are
more able to do the same. You act as a role model and an encourager.
We are all humans who reside on the planet of mistakes and apologies
are absolutely necessity to bring balance in our lives.
By apologizing you begin to fix the problem created and the healing
process begins.
If someone hurts you, it is justice to have them apologize to you!!.
For that reason, we have to do the same when we hurt others.
Apologizing produces guilt to other people but for the better. They see
you apologize for your mistake and compare it to their contribution of
the problem they made.

ALTENATIVE WAYS OF APOLOGIZING

1)Writing
a)Describe the problem.
b)Describe the reason for the behaviour.
c)Describe the reason for changing behaviour.

2)Choose someone to do it for you.
Potentially problems.
a)You don't have the control over what the person will say.
b)It has the less impact.

3)Gift.
If the person you hurt doesn't want to talk to you, give a time to allow healing.

MISTAKES IN APOLOGIZING.

For example (1)"I apologize if I hurt anyone!".
(2)"Please take my apology if you were
offended by what I said".
This is what we call 'non-apology apology'. Most common with politicians
and public speakers. If you are not sure whether somebody was offended or not,
it is much better not to apologize at all otherwise you have to apologize
while being honest with your self.

You are responsible for your emotional healing...
Prepared By
Caesar David.